blue font was his answer to the previous blog...i sent it.
have done the difficult thing you have asked out of respect for you (believe it or not), however you take care of her as she is very special, be clear there is a difference between truly caring and running someones life based on belief you know better for them.
i wanna say...
(believe it or not) i do know the difference as i have been subject to that before. i dont actually care who my siblings date, trust me, i let them do what they wanna do SO LONG AS they are happy (in the true sense of the word), that they're not on the losing end, that they're the ones in control and that the chance of heartache is at very least 50-50..i even intervene whenever my parents become their strict selves again (you can ask chebem bout that).if you werent married i wouldn't object.you wouldn't hear anything from me. and i do care for her, i do know she is special that's why i know she deserves better than what you can give her at the moment. (believe it or not) money, barhopping and all the things you've shown her are not the only things in life.for some, those may be enough and those may be enough for her as well, but like what i said, i was hoping to inculcate in her somehow, how acting responsibly means.
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"IF" HE DISSES THE LETTER WHICH APPARENTLY HE DID NOT, THEN HE IS ONE PATHETIC LOSER WHO HAS NO REGARD FOR THE WELFARE OF INNOCENT PEOPLE, AND IN THIS CASE, AN INNOCENT GIRL WHO MIGHT NEVER LEARN HOW TO TAKE CONTROL OF HER LIFE AND REALIZE HER TRUEST VALUE. THEN AGAIN, WITH HIS SO-CALLED "SENSIBLE" OR SHALL WE SAY I'M-SO-SENSIBLE-AND-NOT-A-LOSER REPLY, WE COULD SAY YOU'VE MADE YOUR POINT. YET BY MAKING YOUR POINT DOES NOT NECESSARILY MEAN HE TRULY UNDERSTANDS U. EVEN WITH HIS LINE "OUT-OF-RESPECT" SEEMINGLY RESONATES A SARCASM OF SORT, SOME HINT OF BITTERNESS, SCORN. YOU CAN INDEED SEND YOUR REPLY FOR THE LAST TIME. AND IF HE STILL CONTINUES ON VOICING HIS "PLEA" OR WHATEVER, YOU DON'T HAVE TO ANYMORE ENTERTAIN HIS ACCUSATORY REMARKS "TRULY-CARING-NOT-RUNNING..." I MEAN, OF COURSE YOU ARE DOMINANT, AND WITH YOUR DOMINANCE IT'S SO EASY TO SAY YOUR CONTROLLING AND OVERBEARING. THEN AGAIN, REGARDLESS IF YOUR JUDGMENT DOES NOT NECESSARILY FOLLOW SUPPORTING THE SO-CALLED HAPPINESS OF YOUR YOUNGER SISTER, MAY THAT BE AS MURKY AS IT ALREADY IS, POINT OF THE MATTER REMAINS THAT, YOU DID OFFER HIM A PROPOSITION: FIX HIS MESS BEFORE LURING CHEBEM TO HIS "NOBODY-WANTS-US-TOGETHER" TALE OF ROMANCE. IF HE THINKS THAT IS TOO MUCH TO ASK, THEN HE MAY BE SURPRISED TO REALIZE FOR HIMSELF THAT, BELIEVE IT OR NOT, CHEBEM MAY NOT BE SPECIAL ENOUGH AS HE BELIEVES SHE IS -ROMANTICISM ASIDE. I REALLY WISH CHEBEM WOULD SEE WHAT IS HAPPENING TO HER LIFE. HOW SHE'S RUNNING IT. AND THINK FOR HERSELF, IS THIS REALLY, THE LIFE I WANTED? IS THIS ALL I COULD EVER BE? SIGH. SHE MAY NOT REALIZE IT YET, BUT SHE'S LUCKY TO HAVE YOU AS A SISTER CHING. BENEATH YOUR VINDICTIVENESS I BELIEVE, IS A TRULY CARING HEART. BELIEVE IT OR NOT. ;)
thanks chang..am really grateful to you for taking the time to reply, believe it or not.
no, seriously. thanks so much.
luv u chang!
problema, hindi alam at ayaw ni Bem bigyan ng meaning ung buhay nia. mhhrapan lht ng tao sa paligid nia lalo n ung mga ngccare sa kanya na basahin sha. i mean, hindi alm kung pano sha mg isip, hindi alm kung pano sha pkitunguhan. kht anong sabihin o ipakita mo na lht ng concern mo pr sa ikakabuti nia, hindi nia ung pkkinggan as long as masaya sha. live your life to the fullest daw, everyday. pwd nmn wg ng mgbigay ng letter s ching kung maiisip ni bem kung ano ang tama at mabuti, ang prob hindi. although lately, nagging ok n sha. marunong n rin mkisama. sana dere2cho na. bsta hon, habaan ng konti ang pasensha, marrealize nia rin lalo pg hindi n kau mg kasama n lahat ng ginagawa mo pr sa knya...mejo galit k lng lagi pero ngccare ka...-cams
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