SO

got a message from a friend about my SO today.

re the CCTV incident, that's true. yes, that happened. but the thing in question was actually just a small purse which had highlighters and a toothbrush and some abubot in it. the dean can attest to that. my SO was given a year suspension but after one sem, the dean called my SO to tell her to enrol. why would the dean to that if this really was just not a stupid issue. if that purse contained something really valuable as most of these "in-the-know" people claim, why was she not expelled? the person who first told you stuff know (in her heart of hearts) that my SO had been good to her. and that she didnt lose anything or the others in that block. they knew what exactly happened. and though nobody will admit this, they all rode in the novelty of that incident. and this person, they were close friends, for a while anyway. and though this person said (still say, i dunno) a lot of bad stuff about my SO, my SO did not retaliate nor wish to retaliate. to think my SO knows a lot of stuff about her too. but my SO out of respect, did not disclose anything. i hope that eventually, she would stop. just stop badmouthing my SO. these people they are vindictive to the core and i do not understand why. let my SO be, she has suffered enough.

re the other people who said stuff about my SO, notice that these people did not really encounter my SO. they only heard the stuff from somebody who has a friend whose friend...you get the drift.

re the ex. yes, i know of this ex. she was one of the few my SO loved and my SO had been very good to her and she knows that. i dunno what her problem is but my SO does not wish ill on her. my SO wants to tell her: "i hope you pass the bar. at the end of the day, we all get what we deserve". re the "different temperaments", i know of these. and i do not need a degree in psych to understand.

i thank you friend for the concern, as always ;> but you know i can take care of myself. but i will remember your advice. in any case, see you soon!

*insert smiley face

it's been 7 months since i first spoke with you...we still have good conversations...we spend hours just talking...we even have these silent moments where we just sit together and cuddle yet seeming to converse. and i love that.

it's been 3 months since we first saw each other...and i still look forward to seeing you at the end of each day...i look forward to sleeping with our limbs intertwined each night.

that mistake, the one which proved not to be a mistake, i am actually very glad that happened.

it has only been less than a year, i know...and we've been under the same roof only for a month but...i am happy...i am content. and i am thankful.

i look forward to our date tonight, mahal (as if you'd be able to read this) but yea..i am lookin forward to our dinner plus coffee plus conversations tonight.