a letter for you-know-who (should i send it?help!)

i know am not in the position to tell you what do, what with you being OLD enough to know what's right or wrong and what's good or bad, aside from the fact that you are a GM in the company i work for.

but i cannot hold my piece any longer since after all, this is my sister we are talking about. am sure you are aware that she's only 22 years old (old enough maybe age wise but there are still a lot of things she needs to learn and experience and am certain being a mistress is not one of them). i know, i know, you dont consider her a mistress and certainly she doesnt wanna be called that either but we cannot erase the fact that you ARE, after all, married. you must have a lot of charms to speak of since my sister seems smitten by you. and am sure you know that when a person is infatuated, s/he has a tendency to be blinded by it that s/he fails to recognize the faults of the person she seems smitten with. but since i am definitely the opposite of smitten, i can see where this is going and i fail to catch even a glimpse of a happy-ever-after (dont get me wrong, i dont believe in that crap but her discovering that it does not exist, does not need to come from experiencing the sad and pained life of a mistress). and dont give me the bullshit of the tired line you seem to be using with her about giving time and such. whatever problems you have with your wife, i suggest you take care of that first before swallowing my sister along with your marital troubles. she has enough problems of her own...our family has enough problems of our own without you adding to it. i haven't told my parents about this craze because i dont want to worry them more than they already are. how do you think will they feel if they learned about my sister's recklessness and with an old married man at that?

i know am not one to talk with the patriarchal society's version of morality but at least am not hurting anybody in the process or dangling another person for that matter. if you truly like or whatever the heck emotion you told her you feel for her, kindly take care of your mess first and ill advice my sister to do the same. if after all your shit (for lack of a better term) are finally put together and you still..whatever you feel for each other.. then fine, you can go back to pursuing my sister and i wouldn't have a problem with that.

for now, let her learn the ropes of being an adult on her own. we are trying to help my my sister here achieve a semblance of maturity and sensibility and have a respect for the thing called acting responsibly. i hope you do the same.